Inside Pastor Craig & Amy’s Marriage | Q&A With Rachel Cruz | Save the Date: Part 5e

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Pastor Craig and Amy have been married for 31 years and have learned a lot about marriage, relationships, and intimacy. In this interview-style message, our pastors are answering relationship questions and sharing what makes their marriage strong so you can set yourself up for success in your relationships. ABOUT THIS MESSAGEHow do I know if they’re marriage material? How do I know if I am? What does a healthy relationship look like anyway? There are so many questions to consider for lasting relationships. It's time for some real talk about relationships, marriage, and sex. You’re invited to Save the Date. Find guides, stories, and wisdom to help you find confidence, peace, and direction in any relationship here: https://www.life.church/betterrelationships/NEXT STEPSHave you made a decision to follow Jesus? You may be wondering what’s next on your journey. We want to help! Let us guide you to your next steps in your walk with Christ: https://www.life.church/nextABOUT LIFE.CHURCHWherever you are in life, you have a purpose. Life.Church wants to help you find your next step. Our hope is that your journey will include joining us at a Life.Church location throughout the United States or globally online at https://www.live.life.church. Find locations, videos, and more info about us at https://www.life.church or download the Life.Church app at https://www.life.church/app. FIND US ON SOCIAL MEDIAFacebook: http://www.facebook.com/life.churchInstagram: http://www.instagram.com/life.churchTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lifechurchCONNECT WITH PASTOR CRAIGYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/craiggroeschelFacebook: http://www.facebook.com/craiggroeschelInstagram: http://www.instagram.com/craiggroeschelTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@craiggroeschel#lifechurch #craiggroeschel #relationshipquestions

Released on 27 Nov 2022

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