Day 91 - Issue 41
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Proverbs 25.20 NLT
'Singing cheerful songs to a person with a heavy heart is like taking someone’s coat in cold weather or pouring vinegar in a wound.'
Ouch! This is a painful proverb because the fact is that we all have the capacity to be insensitive. Singing cheerful songs is obviously a lovely thing to do but to impose this on someone who is depressed is the very last thing that we should ever do. It’s certain that we can all be insensitive. We can all do the wrong thing. We can all say things that are inappropriate and act in a way that we later realise was extremely unhelpful. So the question we need to ask is, “How can we avoid getting it so agonisingly wrong?”
Let’s begin with humility! We need to be aware of our capacity to get things wrong. The truth is that we are always learners in the area of human relationships. Am I the only person who has called another person by the wrong name? Probably not! It’s horribly embarrassing – particularly if you have known them for a long time. They are humbling moments but thoroughly good for us. Secondly, we need to be quick to admit our mistakes and seek forgiveness. If we are living humbly, this will be a natural response and will normally enable a relationship to be restored. Finally, we need to work on our listening skills. If we don’t listen carefully to other people, we will continually be at risk of responding inappropriately. Listening may sound easy but the reality is that it is hard work and demands our full attention. If we listen to others with care, it is highly unlikely that we will do and say the wrong things.
All of these responses can be summed up in one word: love. We need to step into each day with a healthy dose of humility, praying that the God of love will so fill us with his Holy Spirit that we will respond lovingly to each and every situation.
Question: What have you learnt from those times when you have said completely the wrong thing?
Prayer: Lord God, I confess that I have often got it wrong. Fill me with your Spirit so that I will act with love and sensitivity in every situation. Amen
Released on 30 Jun 2022
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